Men and fine pantyhose
Why are men ladies clothes?
The reasons for this are manifold and therefore this question can not so easily answered. Every man may have other motives. So I want
to follow represent that rise naturally not exhaustive different approaches. However, before a first and plausible reason:
Because it's fun and good for you - easy!
Chance of visitors asked me which themselves carry no tights, for the reasons:
'Why are men these tweaking and tight tights on?'
or:
'What are the motives? Why are men Women's Clothing? '
or:
'When men and women dress the same, how do you keep them apart then?'.
'Are these men now all fetishists or transvestites, or what?'
So all legitimate questions ...
A psychologist would probably answer the last question: 'Both'! Where he not far enough considered and not far enough into the subject that interests.
What says the dictionary?
- fetish: magical item
- fetishism: (Fetish worship) abnormal transfer of the sexual impulse to objects.
- transvestism: Mental (sexual) desire clothing of the opposite sex to wear.
- addiction: morbid desire (for example, for drugs)
So that means that there is a clear distinction between practical use and sexual contexts. The transitions should be smooth, but whether this definition is correct, everyone has to decide for themselves.
I'm really not a transvestite ...
... or gay or anything else. These lines I get very often to read. No one sees themselves in this category. Most men wear tights usually only for purely practical reasons. Primarily, it is mostly about the great feeling. That alone but still nothing has to do with transvestism.
I personally do not care whether a man in tights as a transvestite, transsexual, Crossdresser
or whatever looks. He is primarily a person who wants to be accepted by me as it is. And this should be so common. Many complain a lack of
acceptance in the public, lean but at the same time professing crossdressers and so
on. So completely does not fit together, right?
What are or were my motives?
For myself at the beginning was simply the adolescent curiosity. I wanted to know if I would also get such beautiful legs, as they had
the larger pupils in their miniskirts, if I put a pantyhose necessarily. Mini skirts were all the rage back then! The from it could develop an addiction
to it then of course I had not thought of. Too overwhelming were the exciting experience than I would have with it can stop. Although I had often done
it myself, but I am not ultimately come from the tights my mother and aunts go. This pubertal stage with all their new sexual experiences and emotions
continued for several years.
After the pubertal phase was over, it became a little quiet around my tights-longings, also due to lack of opportunities. Only at the beginning of my
studies I was able to enjoy some free them again. I finally had money to buy me my own tights. Added to this was his own small apartment, in most
cases no one bothered me. My relationship with tights now clearly went over in the direction of passion and addiction.
At this addiction and passion came with age and 'mind' of the practical benefits added. Today I see my 'addiction' primarily at from a practical
point of view, coupled with the 'pampering' effect for my legs and my soul. I'm just fine and it's a nice feeling to wear tights, and to caress my
legs each as desired. The psychological component to pamper myself is very important to me. I would not do without tights and I see absolutely no
reason why I should change that.
By chance I also got the taste, besides tights also Lingerie to wear. In the meantime, I carry no more men's models. They are just too uncomfortable to me. I'm wearing only lingerie and 'Damen' stockings and makes me feel good!
Other motives
In addition to pubertal reasons and sheer curiosity but there are certainly many other reasons why a man would like to dress up
as a woman (example: Mary and Gordy). A certain envy women could play a role: women can make up
totally relaxed, which attract most amazing dresses - and if they want, and men clothes attract. Here, no one bothers because women may das. In men
it is different: A man must be a man, in every respect - even he must not show feelings. Only if he thereby feels good, does not matter. The main thing
he conforms to the standard.
It is precisely at this point, some say I want 'equality' and live them off as well, by dress up partially or completely as a woman.
Yet another reason ... Relaxation
It's just fun and is good for your own well-being. It is quite relaxing and enjoyable, easy to put on just a tights and a skirt to
sit in the chair and listen to a good CD - with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine!
Wellness is the right keyword here. For me personally, women's clothing is a kind of spa clothing, so clothing in which and with which I can feel
comfortable, relax and enjoy the feeling. Of course, here are some women will say that
skirts and tights are not spa-clothes, what should be it relaxing? But anyway who can wear every day skirts and tights, for which there is no longer
anything special. The clothing loses its charm. In women there are for example noble underwear or jogging pants baggy look.
Even if someone wears tights also for sexual reasons, then this is for him a kind of relaxation.
Women's clothes as an addiction?
My passion for pantyhose personally I would definitely look for me as an addiction because I can not get away from it and do not
see a logically compelling reason to change this. A good has my 'addiction' but: they schaded anyone and it makes me feel good.
In contrast, there are many other addictions that harm the consumer and his environment. The one smokes, the other is drinking or taking other drugs
to himself. In women's clothing but that's a problem: this addiction is new to the public and therefore she knows what to do with it. Alcohol, etc.
are accepted, however - a topsy-turvy world.
Because the fact is that you want to feel on the skin that feeling of delicate material again and again. Women's clothing is thus a very pleasant way
of addiction.
Women's clothes in public?
Many men, it is sufficient, at least some clothing such as Stockings and underwear to wear from the women's department. Another part
of combined trousers, skirts and shoes from the women's department with the other clothes and pays total, however, that this calculation yields a
coherent overall picture.
The situation is different, however, if you would like to dress completely as a woman. In your own home no limits exist. In public, but should be
in a coherent optics have priority. A light makeup and possibly a matching hair can be very helpful. Unfortunately, some men this cross a line that
would not go women themselves: too bright and overly styled sexy, the person becomes a caricature quickly. The stupid thing is it this person all
the others can bring into disrepute. According to the motto, so he looks like one and gives himself, all other men are. And that's not true.
Therefore: if already dress completely, then either home or given occasion or if it looks deceptively real. On the spinner, who travel around through
the afternoon talk shows, their faces painted garish and tighten you can go without. They are just ridiculous and disturbing.
If you want to dress the same now all?
I do not think so. The appeal of the differences should already be preserved somewhere. On the other hand, when it will become clear
that a particular piece of clothing, such as the tights, for both sexes equally well suited, then you should use this opportunity also. Women have with
the pants finally behind him.
Or, why should I give up Lingerie, although it better like that of the fit and wearability come from? I would be
stupid if I did not take this chance, just because a lady is shown on the packaging. This example goes on and on.
Another example: where it was written, and who writes to me that my legs have to be hairy? See gooseberry legs really that great? Some people have more hair on the legs, as on the head ... Since I do not like hairy legs, I epiliere me since 2001 my legs. In addition, I can also visually enhance it with a pair of tights.
It tingles up ...
Anyone who has ever tried it knows what I mean. One can not so much to persuade 'but is unisex clothing'. A tingling sensation is and remains even
after 35 years still available. And that's a good thing.
Well, the one who personally opposes women's clothing for themselves, which I also believe that it would make him completely cold and this also can
not find appealing. But I take it from no one who wears women's underwear that he feels nothing of it and it leaves him completely cold. It is not
just practical - it also tingles.
And that's also the beauty of it. It is a simple and convenient way to treat yourself throughout the day itself. That will not do many women
differently. They buy the most expensive lingerie not (only) because they (optical) want to irritate their partners, but because they want to
pamper yourself.
No woman really needs lingerie for 50 or 100 euros per part. Bought these fine garments are yet. And why? Because woman wants to be pampered.
And I as a man have finally also the right to spoil me on my way! Who does not know, just know not of what feelings and sensations I write here ...
So, now the questions once the other way around.
What's so bad about a man wearing pantyhose?
It's not lost a piece of masculinity with certainty. Therefore, possibly the same being considered gay, what does that have to do with it? That's now
something completely different. I am only on women. Am I therefore perhaps a lesbian? Just stupid, right?
Or what is already admitting it to themselves and others that you are cold and it's cold? Do I therefore equal access to long pants, or may be a good
deal of quiet convenient it by I wear a pair of tights?
Why are you wearing no tights?
What are you afraid of? - That is just not your thing. You put it out before scratchy
and unpleasant. Women's Clothing should remain reserved for women. etc. - in order, everything is quite well and good, but have you at least tried it
before? No? How do you know then that it could not but you might like? The argument with the woman clothes for women only, after that I've already
answered - I do not see it quite so closely.
So, after you've now read a lot of arguments for it (also to the many other pages of this website), I ask now the question again:
Why still you go without tights in the winter cold out?
- Ah, you like to pull on thick, long underwear.
You want to freeze to wear as ladies tights dear!
- Is it stupid or?
To you it's just uncomfortable to wear women's clothing as a man.
- Well, the argument I can accept.
Men in lingerie you can find ridiculous and silly. Well I can also accept, but you have ever seen one? I think the number of men who have ever been attracted to their partner's underwear, or even do this on a regular basis is likely to be quite large. Probably they are even the very ones who blaspheme the loudest who deny their own hidden passion. There no one will see - he can gossip about these men and has to just a matter of really beautiful lingerie.
I want to talk about any ...
... or force to his happiness, no - I want to convince with arguments and their own experience. I wear tights, lingerie, and
occasionally a skirt and it makes me feel at ease. I find it perfectly normal, also because I do it all the time. For me, the question is not 'if'
I put on a pair of tights or a ladies microfibre slip, but only 'what'.
Then have fun while testing. However, caution: addictive!