Crossdresser

Often, the term crossdresser must be read. But what is it, what is behind it?

In general, the need may be cross-dressing desire to be understood, to wear clothes of the opposite sex. Many crossdressers practice this unconscious desire probably the most out of the drive that it mentally and physically good for them, clothes that do not correspond to the 'universal norm' to attract. That Therefore man does not draw a skirt, because he wants to annoy someone with it, but because he likes it because it's good for him.

Just as there are men who wear like women's clothing, there are just too many women wearing men's clothes. It just does not stand out and it does not bother anyone. That the number of female crossdressers likely to be much higher by far. Only no woman will call it, but sees it as perfectly normal. That's the big difference.

The male crossdressers

On another side, I followed the question of what is actually fetishism?
Because thinking primarily outsiders about a man who likes pantyhose or skirts bears he was gay, he's a fetishist and / or transvestite without knowing what that is all. Few people make the effort to expand their own spiritual limited horizon accordingly and think about why these men do that. It really is easier to join the general opinion.

In order to see this more nuanced usually provided with a negative image names, and to show that this issue is much more complicated, there was a very interesting project work on a South German university. She has addressed this issue and interviewed several people affected. As a result of this study I can for me finally find what I am: I'm clearly a crossdresser.

From the perspective of an uninvolved person you could say: 'well and good, but what is a crossdresser?'

This study was able to classify three types of cross-dressing. These divisions are:

• Crossdresser without feminine identity
• Crossdresser with feminine identity
• Crossdressers who have achieved the complete transition into womanhood

An important knowledge is also that there is not THE typical crossdresser. Each has had a different environment, a different past and perhaps other triggers. For all crossdressers but is equal to that of the mental aspect is particularly important. No Crossdresser has developed a whim by some point, eg Carnival says: 'Today I'm going as a woman' and is stuck with it. Cross-dressing has rather something to do to relax, to feel good, to escape his environment a bit and it's easy to enjoy, at least temporarily, to be a woman. Too bad this is only just that just this great feeling goes by again sometime and catch up one of the daily grind. Much worse is for the individuals concerned, however, that they are confronted with various problems in the environment and therefore usually refrain from fear on the course in the public, even if it is their greatest wish.

The Crossdresser type 1 tries as much as possible to integrate his feminine clothing in everyday life, no matter what might be said to be environment. In a particularly feminine clothing such as Skirts are omitted at least in public.

Other hand, is the type 2 He pulls completely as a woman, make-up, wearing a wig and enjoys his appearance in public as a woman. He lives out his female identity and adopt, where possible, as well as possible as a woman.

The third type, however, has this stage already behind him, basically lives only as a woman. His accomplishment is a mere formality.

Personally, I would add another, fourth type: the crossdresser, although it wears skirts etc, but would like to be recognized yet as a man. He wears women's clothes mainly because it is more convenient and practical. A man with coat and beard is a good example.

The transitions between the individual variants are not exactly defined and not clearly definable. They depend on moods and external influences.

The female crossdressers

In analogy to the previous section one can hold quite possible that there are exactly the same dispositions, motives and mental conditions and women. Of course there are women who wear a masculine identity in itself and act upon these also.

The fourth type is likely to be even spread very far, just no woman will naturally be called a crossdresser, just because they just wearing a shirt or a pair of pants from the men's section. Because no, crossdressers are only men.

One might also say drastic: Women are fond of that do not do that, whereas men have ...

The mental aspect

Although I have often described it, that the practical advantage of tights and skirts is clearly given. Woman clothes fit better in many cases, is softer and more comfortable to wear, and sometimes simply no alternative. For me, the reasons are enough to wear women's clothing.

But women clothing is also Keidung to feel good for me. Can you explain this feeling - it's not real to put into words and thus another person difficult to convey. Other Crossdresser know exactly what I'm talking about here, they know it too. Women can perhaps begin to understand, because they experience every day their clothes, even if unconsciously. Unaffected men such feelings can but certainly not imagine.

Most crossdressers have developed a more or less pronounced personality of the opposite sex. Often this second identity was suppressed by medical or social circumstances, and forced into a unique, ie male or female identity. Live out two identities, and was thus prevented, knowing that they are there. A girl has to play with his dolls and not with cars - and vice versa. Only then what is 'inspire girls in technical professions' of the new German nonsense? Either they have such talent in it or not. Where this is a completely different topic again.

If one of these personalities permanently suppressed, this is seen in the long term harmful. A proper mental balance, an inner satisfaction that person will never be able to experience, unless they can and can develop in accordance. And who in God's name, the company is because that they withheld as general these people their inner balance?

Whether this second personality, this feeling, basically, to be a part of the opposite sex now since birth there or by any events (trigger, initial ignitions) was triggered, this does not matter. The fact is that a balanced emotional life, a balanced personality is only possible if both emotional worlds are served.

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